"After graduating, it hurts me most that we're all growing apart. It was really great when we were in school. We used to see each other everyday. Now there's not much to talk about even when we do get together."
- Bae Doo Na in "Take Care of My Cat"
Last day in Pediatrics. Had our shifting exam this morning, and it was good. I know I'll pass. I *think* I might even get a high score.
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Watched "Take Care of My Cat" in the pm. Phoebe called somewhere in the middle of the movie, so I took a break from the movie to talk to my friend. We talked mostly about hallyu stuff, some chismis, both showbiz and real; she ranted on her cheating classmates, I vented out my frustrations on the scums of the earth. And our talk--my break--lasted 7 hours! (Our record though is 9 hrs, from 8pm-5am... and that is for landline, as our record for mobile is 3-4 hours. Longest phone convo amongst my friends though was between Phoebe and Lexi, lasting some 12 hours I think.) It was nice... as always.
She is one of the very few I get to talk to on a semi-regular basis, in this day and age where everybody is busy and caught up in their own everyday frenzy. I know I have someone I can leave "my cat" with.
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"Take Care of My Cat" is a coming-of-age movie about 5 girls who were the best of friends in high school. After graduation, they went on to pursue their dreams and lead separate lives, even as they struggle to keep their friendship together and take care of their communal cat.
Lee Yo Won is the ambitious and self-centered brat, Hae Joo, who leaves their little province of Incheon for the progressive city of Seoul. A move both literal and metaphorical as with the decision to leave Incheon is also to leave behind her old life, including past relationships. At one point in the movie, she says that her closeness with Ji Young is all in the past and what matters more to her in the present, are clothes and doing her nails and cosmetic surgery.
Ok Ji Young is shy and sensitive and a very gifted artist. Perhaps it is because of her financial situation that she often keeps to herself, opening up only to Tae Hee. She pours out most of her energies into her drawings, something which her friends rarely appreciate. She was the one who found the cat and gave it to Hae Joo as a birthday present, which the latter returned.
Bae Doo Na is the nice and sensible Tae Hee. She is the first of Ji Young's friends to visit her ramshackled house. She lends money to Ji Young even as Hae Joo points out that Ji Young was too poor to ever pay her. She is wise enough to acknowledge that their friendship is changing, and suggests that they should have "monthly meetings to stay in touch. Or else it hurts our friendship." The group's peacekeeper, she has the ability to reach out to both haughty Hae Joo and timid Ji Young, who are on opposite ends of the spectrum. She is very likable, especially by South Asian boys. (I thought Bae Doo Na looked familiar. Apparently, I have seen her before in "Funny Wild Girl", the local release of "A Country Princess", with Kang Dong Won. But I didn't know them *then*.)
Hae Joo, Ji Young and Tae Hee form the core triumvirate of the story. And then there are the twins Biryu and Ohnjo (Lee Eun Shil and Lee Eun Joo), who complete the group. I guess in every barkada there are always primadonnas and peacekeepers, and there are those who are never really in the middle of things, but never left out either. (Yay! NOT me definitely! I am the star of this barkada show entitled "Flummoxed".
As Phoebe pointed out at the height of the D***-M**** thing: "Ngayon lang nagka-issue ang barkadang ito na hindi ka kasali." Salamat ha!
Hindi nga?!. To my fellow Flummoxed-ers who are reading this, if you can give me any other barkada "issue" of which I didn't play a major part... Text me na lang!
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Haha! At may bigla akong naisip na sagot sa sarili kong katanungan. But I digress. Miane. 
The director utilizes a couple of smart tricks in the movie--onscreen texts that appear to emphasize the text messages that the girls send to one another (also seen in B Namchin when LDG and HJH send text messages to each other), and a screen split into 4 columns to show the girls conference-ing over their phones.
Can I just say that the camera focused on this big banner that read: "Seaman's Center" and underneath it were the words "Bahay ng Pinoy"?! Phoebe swears that the seamen were speaking in Filipino, but I couldn't recognize the words (unlike in "A Bittersweet Life" where I understood the goons to be shouting "Patay ka na!" ) And on the bulletin board of that Seamen's Center: Bahay ng Pinoy, I spotted a poster of Metrobank.
Several reviews have explored the cat's symbolic role in their group, the girls' search for identity, their roles in society, the movie's technical aspects, etc. etc. I'll leave them to that. What I want to delve more on is the friendship of the five girls. Their adventures include the twins spotting Hae Joo's boyfriend with another girl and rounding up the rest of the gang in a mobile conference to make sumbong. The resident brat Hae Joo persuading all her friends to come over to Seoul for their next get-together, instead of her having to travel all the way to Incheon--and then being late for said get-together. The incessant teasing re one's embarrassing love life. Cracks at being old maids. Sleepovers. Etc. And these are experiences so real--anybody in a barkada can relate to them.
Yet people grow up and change. Some people grow apart. Some relationships are outgrown. The movie doesn't end on a "forever friends" tone (ey! that rhymes!
). Hae Joo continues her struggle up the corporate ladder. Tae Hee and Ji Young leave to pursue their own dreams. And the cat is left with Biryu and Ohnjo who promised to take good care of it.
Meow! =^..^=
Currently reading: Tadlock Physio
Currently watching: Take Care of My Cat
Currently feeling: sad